Why wait for me?

You saw it first! Anyway let's have a look.
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Here is a more sensible zoom of your FR with subwoofer (red) and mains together (green). There are two issues:
1. Too much bass, about 10dB too much. To be fair, some HT guys prefer a bass response like this. It makes explosions and T-Rexes sound big and scary. It might also make some types of music sound better. But for acoustic instruments, I would prefer a flatter bass response. There is no strict "right" or "wrong" for this one (although some people would argue for more of a flatter curve), IMO it's your preference.
2. What happened to the treble above 14kHz?
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I was curious about that dip above 14kHz, so I summed your L and R RTA's together (magenta) and compared it with "LR", which I assume is a single sweep taken from the main listening position (green). If the RTA was done
correctly it should be a closer representation of what you hear. What we see is a +7dB upper bass peak and a treble peak at 14kHz in the RTA, and the two curves are obviously not the same. So I have to ask you - what area did you sweep with your RTA? Small area around where your head is? Or a large area encompassing several listening positions? I am guessing it's the latter.
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Next, step response. I have also shown the step response of "LR" alone (in faint green) and the subwoofer (in faint magenta). I have shown it twice - zoomed in (on the left) and zoomed out to show the entire impulse response. The reason I show the zoomed out view is to prove that I have aligned the subwoofer impulse correctly.
Look at the black curve first - this is both speakers together with the subwoofer. Before the main impulse at t=0, the response should be flat. It isn't. You can see a substantial amount of pre-ringing that starts about 100ms (!!!) before the main impulse. Some of it is due to the subwoofer (see the zoomed in view), but I have no idea what is causing the rest of it. If you are using a poorly optimized linear-phase filter, it can certainly create a lot of pre-ringing - but you are using minphase IIR aren't you?
It may or may not be audible. The audibility threshold for pre-ringing is about 20ms, and yours well exceeds that. The ideal test track for audibility would be a huge transient with a lot of bass preceded by silence. I suggest Track 1 of this album. You should hear the thwack and boom of the drum together. But if the boom precedes the thwack, then you have a problem.
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