Getting so close but still stuck.
Recap on where we are:
Java:
Choosing SONY... for output: L is left, R is Right, L&R is Left, Right, AND Center
Choosing EXCEL SONY... for output: Can see L,R,C,LFE,SR,SL,RR,RL, but no sound
ASIO:
ASIO4ALL: no sound
FlexASIO: no sound